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Why am I hurting all the time? Why do I feel tired?

Duraid Ahad-Daman, MD

Duraid Ahad-Daman, MD

Family Medicine located in Troy, MI

Long-lasting pain and exhaustion deserve a real answer. Fibromyalgia is one common explanation, but other conditions can look similar, so a careful evaluation comes first.

What is fibromyalgia?

Fibromyalgia is a long-term condition that causes widespread pain, fatigue, and sleep that does not feel restful. Research suggests the nervous system amplifies pain signals, so the body becomes more sensitive to touch, pressure, and activity.

The pain is real, even when blood tests and scans look normal. Fibromyalgia is not an inflammatory or autoimmune disease, although it can occur alongside those conditions. There is no cure, but treatment can reduce symptoms and help you function better.

Does this sound familiar?

  • Aching in many parts of your body, not just one joint
  • Waking up tired, even after a full night in bed
  • Muscles that feel stiff or unusually tender
  • Exhaustion with ordinary activities
  • Trouble concentrating or remembering things ("fibro fog")

Many people also have headaches, jaw discomfort, bloating, or irritable bowel symptoms. Symptoms vary from person to person and can flare and settle over time. They are also common to other conditions, so they do not confirm fibromyalgia on their own.

How we find the cause

We start with your story: where it hurts, how long it has lasted, and how you are sleeping, feeling, and functioning, plus your medicines and daily activities. Then we examine you. Fibromyalgia is diagnosed from this pattern, usually widespread pain with fatigue, unrefreshing sleep, or thinking difficulties lasting at least three months. No single blood test or scan confirms it.

Testing is tailored to you. We may check for conditions that can look similar, such as thyroid disease, anemia, or other metabolic problems, and look further if your exam suggests inflammatory arthritis or another illness. Broad autoimmune panels are not routinely helpful without suggestive findings.

Fibromyalgia can exist alongside another condition, so finding one does not rule it out.

What helps

Most people do best with a combination of approaches:

  • Gentle movement. Start at a comfortable level with walking, water exercise, or other low-impact activity, then build gradually. Exercise is one of the best-supported treatments.
  • Better sleep. Consistent sleep habits, plus checking for sleep problems such as sleep apnea.
  • Coping skills. Education, pacing, and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) help you manage pain and stay active. They do not mean the pain is "all in your head."
  • Medicines when needed. Chosen around your symptoms, other health conditions, and preferences.

Progress is usually gradual. The goal is less pain, better sleep, and more time doing what matters to you.

FDA-approved medicines

Four medicines are FDA-approved for fibromyalgia. None cures it, and none is right for everyone.

Duloxetine (Cymbalta)

Approved for: Adults and ages 13+

Common side effects: Nausea, dry mouth, sleepiness

Key cautions: Warning about new or worsening mood changes or suicidal thoughts, mainly in younger patients; blood pressure and drug interactions need review

Pregabalin (Lyrica)

Approved for: Adults

Common side effects: Dizziness, sleepiness, swelling, weight gain

Key cautions: Breathing risk when combined with other sedating medicines

Milnacipran (Savella)

Approved for: Adults

Common side effects: Nausea, higher blood pressure and heart rate

Key cautions: Blood pressure and heart rate need monitoring; same mood warning as duloxetine

Cyclobenzaprine under the tongue (Tonmya)

Approved for: Adults

Common side effects: Mouth numbness or tingling, unusual taste, sleepiness

Key cautions: Taken at bedtime; heart conditions, other medicines, and pregnancy need review. Regular swallowed cyclobenzaprine tablets are not approved for fibromyalgia

Tell your clinician about every medicine and supplement you take and any pregnancy plans. Do not stop a prescribed medicine suddenly.

Opioid painkillers are generally not recommended for fibromyalgia, because their expected benefits are unlikely to outweigh the risks.

Children and teens can have fibromyalgia too. Treatment for them centers on movement, sleep, and coping skills. Duloxetine is the only medicine approved for ages 13 to 17, and none is approved for younger children.

When to be seen sooner

New or changing symptoms should be evaluated, not assumed to be fibromyalgia. Contact us promptly if you have fever, unexplained weight loss, swollen or red joints, new weakness or numbness, a new rash, or pain that began suddenly or after an injury.

For chest pain, trouble breathing, or sudden severe symptoms, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.

Ready to understand your pain and fatigue?

Request an appointment at Ahad MD PC to talk through your symptoms and build a plan that fits you. We see patients ages 8 and older.

This page is for education and does not replace personal medical advice.

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